If you’re a divorced guy, you don’t need to hear it from me: divorce sucks. Basically every student that attends our weeklong residential program in Los Angeles who’s divorced tells me that it’s the hardest thing he’s ever gone through in his life.What’s more, guys who have been through a divorce generally aren’t in a huge hurry to get back on the horse and start dating again. At least as much as someone who has never been there can.While it’s not a necessary strategy, you might want to consider seeking a partner who balances out your chances of divorce.However, at the end of the day, what you really want to do is work your best on yourself.And from that comes a stronger idea of what you want and what you don’t want. You’re not at a point in your life where you’re going to date women out of inertia; You’re looking for the right woman to spend your time with. Dating after a divorce can be difficult because of the changes in your life.One brief thought before moving on: If you have kids, remember this: There are tons of women out there who also have kids and guys without kids tend to treat them like a third rail. After coaching hundreds of guys who have been through divorce, I can tell you this much: it is different. This causes a lot of men to make mistakes regarding their romantic life. Just as there are things you should never do when you’re recently divorced and dating, there are things you definitely should at least try to do: I love helping guys who have just been through a divorce start living the life they’ve always wanted to have. If you’ve read all of this, remember: It will get better, you will move on and you will eventually come to a place of peace and closure.This list focuses on the things I coached them on that worked and helped them to get through one of the most hellacious periods of their life.Why Some Relationships Fail Before getting into the meat of what to do, I’d like to take a little bit of time to share with you statistics about relationships.
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They’re looking for good men and good fathers to bring into their lives. So here’s a quick list of things you definitely should not do when it comes to dating after your divorce: Now let’s end things on a positive note. But perhaps more importantly, you will get to a point where you’re doing much, much better than you are now; A time when you look back and think that it was all, in some sense, worth it to get where you are now.
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